May
02
2011
As an introduction to wife swapping there are a few things that you are going to have to keep in mind. A lot of couples are interested in wife swapping but are not sure how to begin. You will find that it all comes down to being able to network yourself and your partner so that you can find people that you would want to practice this with. Usually, going online and looking for other couples in your area that are interested is the best way to start.
Other Couples
When it comes to the other couples you will want to make sure that they are ones that you feel comfortable with. Some couples prefer to go with people that they do not know to add to the sexiness and mystery of the act. However, some people prefer to know the other couple on some level so that they can feel more at ease and comfortable with them. Talk it over with your spouse to see what you both prefer.
Safety
When it comes to wife swapping you always want to make sure that you are as safe as possible. This of course means that you need to make sure that you and your partner always have condoms that are being used during the act. It is also a good idea for you to feel safe with the person that you are with and to have your spouse nearby.
Location
When it comes to the location you will need to make sure that you pick out a good spot. Most of the time, one couple will host the other couple.
Apr
30
2011
When it comes to having fun with food and sex you will find that a lot of people like to do this. Whether you are going at it alone with a phallic shaped food like a cucumber or you are with a partner and want to try something that you can both enjoy there are a lot of options. Many people love to include food with sex because it makes it even more fun.
Fruits
People love to be able to have fruits included with their sexual rendezvous. You will find that strawberries are the most popular whenever you want to entice and play with your partner. Peaches are also very sexy and fun. Usually, any type of berry can be something that you and your partner can enjoy feeding to each other blindfolded. After a few pieces of fruit you can surprise them with yourself.
Sweets
Any types of sweets such as honey, chocolate and whipped cream are great to lick off of each other. You will be able to really get into foreplay and oral whenever you and your partner are covered in sweets. Also look for edible panties and bras. Your partner can slowly eat them off of you.
Clean
It is really important that you understand the importance of keeping clean whenever you are playing with food during sex. A woman can easily end up getting an infection if she is not careful where it is that she puts the food or the sweets. Take your fun to the shower as soon as you are finished with the foods and sweets.
Mar
20
2011
Whenever you are looking into having outdoor sex with your fellow swingers you will need to make sure that you understand the basics. A lot of people that are new to swinging or to outdoor sex can end up not having much fun if they are not fully prepared for what to expect during the act.
Area
The area that you choose needs to be one that is out of the way so that passersby are not going to easily be able to see you. While the thrill of getting caught may be very sexy and a lot of fun you will only end up humiliated when you get arrested for indecent exposure. Play it safe and make sure that you and your fellow swingers cannot be easily seen by others.
Bring
What you bring is going to have a lot to do with how good of a time you’re going to have. Never rely on just one person to supply everybody with condoms. Every person that is there needs to bring their own condoms, man or woman. You will find that the more condoms that you have, the more sex you will be able to enjoy. It is also a good idea to bring towels for clean up and blankets to lie on.
Clean
Always clean up after yourself whenever you are done. On top of not wanting to litter you may also want to use this area again and you will only be telling on yourself by leaving your condom wrappers lying around.
Feb
20
2011
When you are trying to figure out how to choose the best dogging location, there are a few things that you will need to keep in mind. As a dogger, you want to make sure that you and your fellow doggers are kept safe and are going to be able to fully enjoy yourself while you are in the act. This is why the location is the most important part to dogging.
Open
You will want an area that is open enough where you and your partner will be able to have sex and where your audience will not feel crowded. A lot of the time, people will end up having sex in their car while others watch. This is where openness really comes in handy as you will want to make sure that your vehicle will have a place to park while others crowd around.
Out of the Way
It is so important that the place that you pick is one that is out of the way. You do not want to risk having any pedestrians see what is going on. If they happen to call the police you could get into a lot of trouble. The legal loophole with dogging is that as long as you are not seen by unwilling viewers that you are in the clear.
Not Too Out of the Way
You really don’t want to be too far out of the way so that none of the other doggers can find you. Make sure that the spot that you pick is one that is easy to find if you are looking for it.
Jan
03
2011
Many people do not realize that they have a lot of health benefits presented to them by swinging. It is a good idea for you to know what these health benefits are so that you will be able to take full advantage of them.
Sex Benefits
Sex alone has so many health benefits that people are unaware of. Whenever you are a swinger you are of course going to be having more sex so this means that you will only be benefitting yourself even more. Having sex is a great stress reliever. It can also help to burn calories and boost up your immune system. Also, whenever you are suffering from specific pain, sex can help to calm this for you. If you are suffering from insomnia, having a lot of sex is a great, natural way to cure this.
Confidence
Chances are you are going to feel incredibly sexy whenever you are having sex. The desire that the other person has for you is going to really make you feel like a million bucks. Swinging is a really great way for you to be able to carry this feeling with you all the time. People that are confident in themselves are a lot less likely to suffer from depression.
Safety
Always make sure that a condom is worn while swinging. STDs happen to run rampant in the swinging community from people that fail to practice safe sex. You will absolutely be able to enjoy every single one of the sexual health benefits whenever a condom is worn.
Dec
06
2010
As a swinger, you want to make sure that you are able to get the most out of the sex that you have with your partners. This is why it is a good idea for you to make sure that you understand the best types of swinging positions that you can find yourself in during the act.
Reverse Cowgirl
The reverse cowgirl is a great position because it gives him and her, the opportunity to see other couples around them. If you are in a room of people that are having sex you may want to get a peak every now and then. He will lay on his back with her on top and her back to him. She will get to feel him inside of her in a much different way than regular girl on top.
Doggy Style
Going at it doggy style is a great way for the both of you to be able to go at each other in a completely animalistic way. He will love the power and she will love how easily he will be able to thrust into her. It will also give him the opportunity to take a peak around at the other couples that are nearby.
Golden Gate
The Golden Gate is a great way for him to get as deep into her as possible. With her on her back she will put both of her feet up on either side of his head. This will allow him to be able to get great penetration.